“A good ally is someone who understands the power of listening, someone who provides love and support, and someone who simply treats people how they would like to be treated.”

Model, content creator and LGBTQIA+ activist AJ Clementine's online content is an authentic, charming, humourous look into her trans experience. She's passionate about helping the next generation of LGBTQIA+ young people – and especially trans young people – feel supported confident and supported in their journey.

We spoke to AJ about what it means to be an ally, and to educate yourself – in the lead-up to IDAHOBIT, during the day against LGBTQIA+ discrimination, and every day of the year.

What makes a good ally?

“For me, the top qualities in a good ally is someone who understands the power of listening, someone who provides love and support, and someone who simply treats people how they would like to be treated.

“At the end of the day, we’re all human beings.”

AJ’s Youtube feed is an emotional, funny, disarmingly honest look into her life and, specifically, her experience being trans – from answering audience questions, to offering beauty tips, to surgery vlogs.

“I focus on creating content that aims to shine a light on the topics that aren’t talked about enough, and that sometimes aren’t easy to talk about. I think that sort of content can open up the conversation for others.”

“I do this for the multicultural LGBTQIA+ community, through sharing experiences which I believe create positive change and visibility.”

How do you go about starting to be an ally?

It’s all well and good saying you want to be a good ally to the LGBTQIA+ community. And, if you’re in the queer community, being an ally to the many intersectional identities found within our community. But it can be difficult to know where or how to start.

AJ’s advice? It’s okay if you walk before you’re able to run. “You don't need to be too forward about it, but you can let a group, or somebody specific in your life, know that you support them in little ways.”

“Educate yourself, engage with LGBTQIA+ content, or simply give that person a compliment. You always have the ability to lift someone up, so give it a go!

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